
We grow through what we go through #NationalMentoringDay
In the second part of our 10 questions series for National Mentoring Day’s 10th anniversary, we’re focusing on what it’s like being a mentor and the personal growth that comes from the incredible experience of supporting a #LittleLondoner.
Mentoring isn’t always easy, your eyes are opened to some of the challenges that children are facing that you may not ever have thought about before – but it’s in these moments that we often learn the most about ourselves and the children we’re supporting.
Let’s hear from mentors Sarah, Shaaista and Sofia about what they’ve learned through their journey and any obstacles they overcame in the process.
How has mentoring impacted your personal development
Sarah: “It’s helped remind me of how kind people can be to one another.”
Shaaista: “Mentoring has given me the ability to listen actively and with empathy, without judgment.”
Sofia: “I’ve become more open-minded, more engaged in my community, and more aware of what life in London is like for different people.”
What challenges have you faced as a mentor?
Sarah: “There have been times when I didn’t have the answer and didn’t want to provide the wrong one. Luckily, The Kids Network team has always been there to support me.”
Shaaista: “The biggest challenge has been coming up with new and creative activities that my mentee would enjoy.”
Sofia: “Responding in a helpful way when my mentee shares something vulnerable about his family life. I want to make sure he feels seen and supported.”
How have your views on mental health and personal growth evolved?
Sarah: “Children are incredibly observant. All children need to feel safe, have fun, and explore, and it’s amazing to see how these experiences shape them.”
Shaaista: “Mentoring has shown me how important human connection is to mental health. My weekly sessions with my mentee always give me a sense of purpose.”
Sofia: “Many children grow up faster than others because of their home situation, and it can take a toll. Being a consistent and positive presence makes such a difference.”
Every challenge is an opportunity for growth, both for mentors and their mentees.
The Kids Network provides the support mentors need to tackle these challenges, while also offering the space for mentors to reflect on their own development.
During the process of becoming a mentor The Kids Network also provides free mentor training, safeguarding and trauma-informed training for all volunteers who join our community to best equip them with the skills they need. Plus, mentors get a programme manager who will be available throughout the programme and online resources to help you with your sessions.
Whether you’re a current mentor or thinking about joining us, know that you’ll be supported every step of the way.
Our final part will look at the most rewarding moments and advice from mentors on how to make a lasting impact!